If you would just try harder …
Many adults with ADHD grew up in a school system that misunderstood their struggles, leading to shame, masking and self-criticism. In this personal reflection, integrative counsellor and creative therapist Rich Hayden explores the lasting impact of the “just try harder” message. (4 minute read) In our modern society, we have the understanding that having ADHD […]
Gems coming out of your head: a twist on radical acceptance
A connection with an ADHD therapist transformed how transactional analysis-trained therapist Hayley Watkins understood neurodivergence and self-acceptance. Through therapy and a chaotic, joyful, city break, Hayley discovered the beauty in difference — and the power of celebrating it. (4 minute read) I had an interesting experience about a year ago. Despite being a qualified counsellor, […]
ADHD needs a different way to make things work
Despite intelligence and creativity, many people with ADHD struggle to thrive in systems not built for their neurotype. In this article, Attention Allies counsellor Rebecca Burton suggests it’s time to rethink learning, productivity and support – starting with approaches that align with how ADHD brains actually work. (4 minute read) My father had an IQ […]
A perfect storm: When ADHD meets menopause
Menopause can be a particularly challenging time for those with ADHD. For some, it may even be the prompt that sparks a late diagnosis. But why? Here, psychotherapist and counsellor Lottie Storey explores how midlife hormonal changes affect ADHD and some other neurodivergences, and how therapy may help. (7 minute read) Over recent years, huge […]
The gift of being sensitive: HSP, ADHD and emotional resilience 
With professional and personal interests in the subject matter, counsellor and therapeutic coach Sarah Guthrie takes a look at some of the potential interconnections between the highly sensitive person (HSP) and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) with a side order of rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) thrown in for good measure. (5 minute read) Have you […]
Empowering ADHD/NT couples with self-determination theory (SDT)
Attention Allies founder and specialist couples therapist Duncan E. Stafford offers some introductory insight to how SDT can be a strong, flexible and empowering framework to help support those living in mixed ADHD/neurotypical relationships. (5 minute read) Couples therapy involving one partner who has an ADHD neurotype requires a compassionate and structured approach to foster […]

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